Why determination makes Difference in Leadership

Quoting The King of Chess vishwanathan Anand “This has been the toughest game I have ever played” having got 3 decades of passionate practice still humble anand depicts deterministic attitude of learning. This is some real good stuff any leader has to learn, the moment a man stops learning his leadership becomes numb. Determination is a word that has to be closely coupled with leadership, leadership again need not be hierarchical, it’s imbibed with attitude, articulation and output a professional creates. A deterministic developer can be a leader in way of ensuring flawless delivery and exuberant team work. But how can a meagre developer ascend the throne of leadership? .Yes it could be attained by a continuous quench for improvement, progressive development and excellence and beyond every thing being deterministic of what he wants to achieve. I strongly feel this Employee first concept can be visualised as an arena for nurturing the Leadership abilities.

A leader should have integrity, commitment and be deterministic over the cause .His actions has to be transparent, I know many of you wont accept that the system is 100% transparent, what we feel is right and to ensure full transparency each and every one of us have to be determined over the actions we perform, fight for the rights we posses and can finally share the joy we get.
Being a leader is very simple, it’s all about delegation and allocation rather being a deterministic leader where standing and combating for the cause (Be it People, country, or a cause) makes a lot of difference. In most of the cases a deterministic leader has failed, yet their qualities are remembered rather than their defeats.
My instinct on just writing is this blog is that we must remember that one determined person can make a significant difference, and that a group of determined people can change the course of history.

Perumaal kovil to Petersburg

What an overnight transformation from the broad streets of Srirangam to the Snow falling Woods of Russia. Yeah ! a diehard Iyengar Boy making a catholic connection through the “Titos”.
The topic sounds apt as they not only bring together 2 different horizons but also the integrity of love and its lust for true heart.

Ram being a smart Engg grad was on a versatile vacation to “coorg” where having fun was the ultimate objective, as a medium of achieving it there was DJ’s, Campfires and even Daunting Disco’s to beat the cold and feel Hot really Hot .

The 7 member group was on their full form swimming in the pool, in really enjoying the cool nature. Being a boy of high emotional quotient and very inquestive Ram was always on Cloud nine.

There was a storm for ram when the 4 of the 7 member gang left for Titos (The local dance floor... of- course a costly floor too) . This transformed the white crossed fair guy horny and hot.

“Dark Floor”,” Dancing Couples”, Smoking Teens and seduction was the scene there. A hard core western dance floor. Then they realized the real name behind “Titos”. There was really “Cultural Culling” and “Heritage Hammering”. Boys and girls hardly apart from each other and there was really a eager over hunger!

Ram was anticipating the action and he got around finally. There was no response for this rattle guy as every body was busy in their work. After few minutes of solo scrambling at the dance floor, a milky way got into Rams way, As white as the milk a girl in Pink Tops and black jean was making us all real beans. Her looks created licks among all the lads over there.

The Bold, Brutal ram brilliantly banqueted the girl, he got hold of the chance, and charismatically the milky was a clicky for him.Aggraveted by rams anticipated action the rest of the three were in deep vain.

There was no smooch, no squeeze, but soft dance and this continued for sexy sixty minutes.
The Iyengar guy was rocking in Salsa, Hip- Hops (Get it right!) and belly style. We never saw him shaking like this before (I meant the dance). Symbolizing a student of shakira, and the movements of Michael Jackson, this ram was in real jam.

A literal fire broke out b/w the 2 and both were really enjoying the heat, be it push in or a roll over or a slide in arm (all meant in dance), the steps were superb and scintillating. The rest 3 were shell shocked and also sad as they never expected the curd rice guy to cum like this. This continued for more than 3 hours” its really a Saturday night fever” u could just imagine a full length movie got over. Really there is no doubt in the optimistic, ornamental and adorable skills of this Ram who was in Jam with this Petersburg Burger.(That chick)…He really deserves to be in Petersburg from Perumalkovil…

Calvitie

I am a bold benevolent bachelor cried Raman an IIT alumnus working for Delloite with a lucrative package of 25 LPA,a duplex house at Navi Mumbai and an Imported SUV. Ten years back at a small town in TamilNadu Raman aka RamaGopalan was at class 10 and it was during that time he started using the pills which was prescribed for his syndrome and after an year or two when he was at IIT Chennai Raman was really weird to know that most of his Peers were also suffering from the same disorder.
Raman even had a gang formed and have brainstormed the reasons for the detrimental effect and the viable solutions. None of the best brains in the country was able to get an enduring solution for that rather suggested elusive method. Even the clinical experts were consulted for problem and they were really skeptical about the cause of this effect among the legion of young men.
They were humiliated, stressed, overlooked and were totally ignored by the Chicks in the campus, the bandwagon of boys were really obsessed on this. Raman stopped narrating his past experiences during his college days to his new Colleague Manjit Singh a young lad from Punjab. Once Raman huffed after completing ,Manjit can’t stop laughing and was really awestruck on hearing Raman, ironically Manjit also suffers from the same problem that Raman was talking about.



Arey yaar!! Stop blabbering I am even affected badly by what you were saying and none of us could resist this, they call it genetically inherited and it has no cure of course it can’t be dealt with easily. Raman was fuming to reply yet he was patiently listening to Manjit. Just a moment! Excused Manjit and was rushing to the Rest Room, and after a couple of minutes Ram was really perplexed by Manjith’s movements and was feeling really weird.
Oh My God!! What the hell is that screamed Ram on seeing Manjit without his turban and to his surprise Manjit was as bald as ram and has been hiding it by the turban unintentionally. A single annoying factor has made a crater on these brilliant gentlemen and obsessed them. Now both of them can’t stop laughing yet tears were rolling down their cheeks. Being bold is gold but for girls being bald is the worst, that’s the worst dream for any youngster.





After all these young lads are being punished for doing no harm. They use shampoos, creams, gels and a lot more protective measures but it’s the destiny’s decision to punish them. After the long dialogue they duo went for coffee. The Italian restaurant was jam packed on that warm Sunday and a bubbly girl as white as a snow sparkled there in a black sleeveless with her friend and to their luck there were only two chairs that shared the same bay with our bald boys. Hay, this is Aradhana Shankar and that is Mridula Mohan tweeted that cute chick to Manjit. Singh was at cloud nine and was gasping at ram. Ram wasn’t interested and just said a formal hay.
Can we please share this bay with you for a cup of coffee, all the bays are full said Mridula by now Aradhana was staring at ram who was busy solving the tough Hindu Cross word. From child hood days Ram always had a flair for English and wanted to improvise it indeed. Manjit said a big yes to Mridula’s request and now the couples were comfortably seated then. So what you do queried Aradhana? To the clean shaved Ram who was striking right from his glaring head to his neat Nike shoes. Let me guess interrupted Mridula! Students Right???



Yeah a couple of Years back at IIT replied elated Ram who always boasts over his Grey cell connection over IIT!
Now we work for KPMG said Singh. IIT!! Huh hissed mridula amid a normal Aradhana who has been sheer brilliant girl. Being a DU (Delhi University) Economics Topper.
That was our first meet baby! Ram was reciting the whole story to Siddharth his three year old son, now Aradhana is Aradhana Raman and Mridula is Mridula Manjit Singh. The Bold guys got beautiful ladies, after all anything can happen with a Cup of coffee, its hard to realize that “Not Only Bold Is Beautiful But Also Bald”

Destiny – Dream -Hindrance.

An normal boy next door alike the looks of danush (Even better) having dreams of making it to the foot prints of Will smith or Mel Gibson isn't that really crazy??? No its not. The motive is to dream and the destiny is to achieve that has been dreamt.

Is there any thing that stops us to dream big?? No Not at all that’s really a stimulant! Yes it is. Having a dream of doing research on Global Economics from the LSE and making a hard try to align you to the band of Noam Chomsky and Paul krugman by having a column at the New York Times.

The one thing that really matters is the penance and perseverance that u have to invest to achieve the destiny. But no one really stops u from doing that does any one. Of course yes the normal man is obsessed not only to make money but to emotions,senses and a lot more.

Eventually success is beyond all these u have to cross a million miles to reach the shore of Light- destiny. The pain is really annoying and even makes you brittle. But that’s a molding process to mantle you.

But how to navigate in the right path how to achieve success when the aspirations are as high as the sky but not efforts. This is really not a Mutual Fund game to have double to get for what u bet This is life Each and every day counts we loose time,material loved ones and a lot more.

Even they have done so Jessie Owens, Michael Schumacher,Indira Nooyi and the list goes on reading bright stars. These stars were once eclipsed by various factors but their penance and perseverance made them a Star…

Yeah we all know that but still being at a bay amid people who procrastinate progress little and Pondering over emotions and living in dreams is really crazy but the reality is to achieve and accomplish.

I believe my blog is a place to boast when bullied down ‘Just watching Kung-Fu panda will never make you the Dragon Warrior’. You have To Believe In.

So Wake up Sid!! …

" VOID "

Philosophy has always been a perplexed and bewildered topic for me since I knew about it and has been really skeptical to emulate and understand. I have got a better glimpse of it by reading Jiddu Krishnamurthy (J.K) and Paulo cohelo; let me put it straight from the gut.

Karma, Birth- of course Rebirth , values, spiritualism, Demand-supply, life… and a few more have allured and kindled the interest in me to explore, equally likely these are potentially weird and have been daunting me for quite some time for a coherent understanding.When a person reaches a state of void – A non charismatic attitude about the way of life. The way to live with money, fame, relations and lots more and when he thinks of his mission on earth, the effect of his birth and his accomplishment before death. What exactly fills the vessel?

What does prevail over the legacy some leave behind, the records they make, money they earned ands a life style they shadowed, is that something that gives a sense of tranquility!You feel love, sense lust live on money value relations, achieve ambitions yet some legion among the mankind senses some space of void that still remains unfilled.What exactly will make a human happy! Contented millionaires dream to be billionaires and they to trillion, there was a time when the continents across the world were invaded for power, wealth and passion and even now in the disguise of science & technology the mankind is invading the Moon and the Mars, is that a mark of contentment?

I was really shocked to read that one of the bollywood star is being gifted with a piece of land in the moon every year by one of his Australian fan on his B day. Holy shit we are getting ready to pollute the moon!! Seeing all these marks of mankind’s evolution and exploitation I always question myself when do we reach peace and attain tranquility.

To be true we don’t and we won’t, ironically you aren’t safe even at death. The recent demise of one of the greatest pop icons of the world has revealed the fact that for various concerns his cemetery has been kept a secret. Pathetic isn’t it? Do we attain peace on achieving our ‘’Destiny’’yeah! We do so but destiny is a variable term, today my destiny is to get a car for my wife but next year its an ‘SUV’ and the year ahead it progress to an Lamborghini. Strange right but that’s the reality!!! A bitter truth which we never dare to realize rather complaint, one fact is that we as humans will never be accomplished with what we have and get except for a few exceptional who are the protagonist of the masses. Be it spiritual political or moral they are the real with no mirage.

Might be Mahatma Gandhi, Abraham Lincoln but still you ever had a chance to ask them whether they have attained destiny they really may not be able to answer you that’s my take! These 23 years of engrossing reach and what I have been and have been with has just thought me one thing a charismatic word “ IDEOLOGY” which could be visualized by various ways and means I feel its spirituality my friend says its communality and other feels something else. But this powerful tool could really fill a quantifiable amount of void that’s been left out. I have thought of it and my fellow travelers in the domain of time I believe this VALUE could be converted to a VALUE, I am not competent enough to talk on value but I really feel the guilt of not filling up the void that’s left out for which I believe a way of is possible . Be aware and beware of this Void lets not get out of this world empty!

I AM A NERD!!!

Oh my Middle class Mother!!!

I chuckle and cry

I chuckle and cry

An average lad with leveraged language

From the boring pages of ‘The Hindu ‘

To the Soaring scenes in Sheldon…

To the tasteless debate with a chick

Neither horny nor harmonious!

From the weird ways to propose

And the seducing ways to impose

I am a Nerd

Amazingly amateur in all ways

Right from Technology to Talent

Business to bucking

I am a man of bilging and bitter bilging

Neither a verb maniac nor a prankster

I blot as a buoyant boy still aspiring a business class.

Oh my middle class mother

I am a Nerd

I am a Nerd….

MIRAGE !!! 'OR' MIRACLE!!!

As Hard As A Horse !

I Run Chasing The Cat !!

From Four To FortNight

I Save My Time

To make The Cat Mine

English Seems Elusive

Math Makes Me 'Mad'

Logic the Wrost Of My Life Tragic

(Reading) Comprehension

Creates Apprehension !!

Data(Intrepretation) Beats My Brain With a "BATA"

It's All For A Cause

The Pain,Penance,Prognosis

I Giggle, I struggle!!

I Live In Dreams

And I dream When I Live!!

Either Love Or Lust

MBA For Me Is A Must

You CAT I Love You !!

You make Me 'MAD'

OR

Even Mad For Management!!!